If your child is spoiled, you are also included in spoiling your child.
As a parent, try to know where you are going wrong with which your child is spoiled.
Parents play an important role in raising the children with good manners.
For that, you need to spend time with children and teach them what is good and what is bad.
It is common that every parent enjoys their children and thinks that other people also enjoy your child, but some children are not bearable and enjoyable around and they are called spoiled children.
The parents indirectly create a spoiled child. Once if you start satisfying their whims and their demands, they will expect the same all the time. By this, the needs and wishes will increase day by day.
Being parents, it is your duty to fulfill their needs and wishes, but don’t make it as a habit for your children. If it becomes a habit, then the frequency of whims and requests will grow and they expect more from you.
At any point, if you are unable to give them what they need, then these requests will convert into demand. They even start to threaten you if they do not get what they want.
Ways to prevent children from being spoiled
Start observing your behavior first and think whether you are spoiling your child. Observe your children closely if they throw a tantrum, as this is the sign of spoiling.
Don’t be angry with your children when they throw a taunt. They throw a tantrum only when they feel they can get what they expected, but see to it they will not do such things in public places such as restaurants, departmental stores, etc.
First calm yourself and explain them clearly about the situation and what is good and what is bad about the issue.
If it is confirmed that you are spoiling your children, then try to find the root of the problem. Now, it is necessary to set certain limits on child behavior and make them clear with their expectations. Clearly explain them the extent of their expectations and the thing that cannot accept.
You should establish the consistency. Since children can easily know the inconsistency of parents, you should need to develop the strong and firm consistency between you and your children.
It is also important to praise them for their good behavior. Lastly, patience is required. Remember that children do not get spoiled overnight. You also have a role in spoiling the children. Take time for your children even though you are busy with your work schedules [working parent].
You will be tired after coming home from work and you feel to be relaxed, but you need to spend some time with your children and try to know what they have done during the day. By doing so, they will feel secure and at the same time, the respect and love towards you will grow day by day.
