Posted on Sep 29, 2007 | Comments 0
It is your responsibility to teach your children the things they need to know. Many parents are worried about the state of the world.
Parents even complain about how there not much love and compassion in the way children is interacting with one another.
Express love and compassion! Parents don’t realize that they have the ability to change the way that things are. You have to teach your children love and compassion when they are young.
If your child expresses love and compassion towards another person, it inspires that person and he also expresses love and compassion.
Become a role model! If you show love and compassion towards others, you can teach your children love and compassion. You are the role model for your children. They follow what you are doing.
Your children always observe how you are interacting with other adults and children. If you act hatefully and selfishly, your children also think that they should act in that way only.
Act in a right way! Show how to act in right way. Don’t just tell your children how to act in right way. No need to go out of your way to help others, just make love and compassion part of your personality.
Treat all the people with respect and dignity and teach your children the same thing, even if someone is not doing the same with you. You can volunteer old neighbor.
Take your child along with you. Ask your child also to volunteer such as carrying a bag if you are going for grocery store. In this way you can teach your children love and compassion.
Teach your children love and compassion by treating them in a nice way even when you are upset with them. When you do not shout on them, it makes your children understand how they should be. It helps in learning how to treat people.
If you show love and compassion towards your children it does not mean you can’t punish your children when they does something wrong.
Discipline them properly and explain why you are disciplining them and let your child know that you are making them to do the right thing by discipline.
Reward! Teach your children love and compassion and if your children act in that way, reward them. This positive support teaches your children that good things come to those that are good to others.
Don’t scold your children when they don’t do the right thing. Don’t act in a negative way. Do it opposite. Reward them when they do something loving and compassionate. Teach your children why they should show love and compassion towards others.
Entertainment! Make sure your children are watching positive programs in television and books he reads are positive ones. Children learn from fictional characters a lot. Do not allow your children to watch television shows and movies which are violent or have negative traits.
These shows have negative effect on your children and influence them to act out with anger and violence. If children watch their favorite characters are acting with love and compassion, they will be inspired well.
If you teach your children love and compassion in childhood, they follow throughout their life. Children interact with other children or adults with love and affection.
If you teach your children how to show love and compassion towards others, they will show love and compassion towards you when they enter the adulthood.
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