You will be surprised to discover that you don’t feel immediately bonded to your new baby.
Sometimes you also feel that your baby looks a little like stranger even if love is already there.
Bond with new baby! For this reason, parenting with love and logic is important for new parents to make an effort to bond with your new baby.
If you are a new dad, you feel as if you are not bonding to your baby. As a new dad, you can do plenty of things to feel closer to your baby.
Doctor visit! Parenting with love and logic involves making an attempt to be involved in doctor appointments and other activities. This helps to know your baby better. Doctor’s visit can be helpful and informative and it is comforting to your baby if both parents are present at that situation.
Your baby is poked and prodded by the doctor. You can jump into the situation and comfort your baby.
Take time for your baby! Parenting with love and logic involves taking time to really know your baby. Find out the things in which your baby is interested. Does your baby enjoy the music or not?
Does your baby want to be in the crib? Does your baby want to stare from the window? It is easier to bond with the baby if you are familiar with his likes and dislikes.
If your wife stays at home with the baby while you go for work everyday, you should consider your wife as a valuable supporter in your attempt to bond with the baby.
Make it habit for your wife to tell you something new about your baby. It can be very small thing also. You can easily bond with your baby if you are familiar with his habits.
Present when your baby reaches milestones! Parenting with love and logic means, you should be present when your baby reaches milestones. Present at home when your baby is attempting to eat solid foods. The first time, baby feels difficult to eat solid foods, so they make the situation messy and hilarious.
Don’t leave your wife to handle alone this sort of things. You can also catch the scene in the camera. These things will remain in your mind as precious recollections and it surely enhances your relationship with the baby.
Spending time! Parenting with love and logic involves spending time with your baby. Spending time with your baby will have good results. You can easily bond with your baby if you feel confident in spending time alone with him and not relying on mom to entertain and care him.
Parenting with love and logic does not require giving up all the hobbies to bond with the baby. Instead you can include your baby into your hobbies. Remember that having a baby does not end entertainment in your life.
Share! When parenting with love and logic, you can share some hobbies with your baby but it is the time you have to reorganize your priorities. When parenting with love and logic, it is perfectly fine the way you handle your baby.
It can be completely different from how your wife handles. Dads play physically with kids. If you are playing with acceptable limits, it is good. Your baby learns different things from different experiences.
Parenting with love and logic helps you to be as a teacher to the baby and it develops strong bond between you and your baby.